Why you shouldn’t become a single parent
It’s not easy being a single mother. I had a friend who was a single mother and she would do anything to be single again. She thought about giving her kid up for adoption or sending her to a boarding school. She was thinking about foster care and she didn’t enjoy being a mother. You’re stuck with the child and you can’t do a lot without hiring a baby sitter. It’s harder than most things in life. You’re pretty much stuck with the kid and you don’t have as much freedom as you use to have when you were childless. This is why women should think twice before having kids when they’re not ready. If you’re not in a stable relationship, you should not have kids. You should only have kids when you’re in a stable relationship.
Men can leave you with no child support. You will be hunting them down for child support. This is the trend but women keep on getting pregnant and then have the boyfriend leave them with no support. If you think twice, you might save yourself a lifetime of pain and responsibility. I had a friend and she described to me that her child was one of the worst thing that ever happened to her. She loves her kid but at the same time she works too hard to raise her kids and herself. She can’t do one thing in life because of her child and her boyfriend took off on her. She ran away from him because he was too abusive. He hits her and did many other things. He didn’t support her financially. She had to take care of him and her child. I was asking her why she got pregnant but she said that it was an accident. I guess she was young too and she doesn’t know how to make good decisions.
When you’re young, you just go with the flow. You don’t know how to make decisions. If you already have a child, you should go to court and file for child support. It’s the law that the dad pays for child support. If you know his full name then you should look him up and sue him. You should make him pay child support because it’s the only way to be fair to you. It takes two people to make a child so you shouldn’t have to go at it alone. If you know his family, you can ask them for child support or ask for help to raise the kid. It takes two people to make a child so you shouldn’t have to raise it alone. If the dad asks for child custody, you should hand the kid over since it’s easier for a man to support a kid but not a woman. You are the weaker link and it’s harder for you to survive and support the child at the same time too. I don’t think that you should try to fight for your child’s custody. You can always visit your child but a child needs a good home. The court usually rewards the child to the parent that has the higher income and can provide a safe home for the child. It’s a goal that young women don’t rush into having children when they’re not ready. It will take them a long time before they can be free from responsibility.
Written by kay_pierre
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